In my dream, I was going to get married. I was the exact age and everything I am now, and people were in it that I recognized, but they weren't who they are in real life. In my dream, I was to be married to this pracitcally boy, and it was the weirdest thing ever! He was like only 19 or something, and he was just kinda dorky, and I had never met him. The wedding was all set and ready to go and everything, when I went to his family's house to practically meet the guy. We kind of just were talking, and even though he seemed like a nice guy and someone I could get along with, it wasn't someone I could marry. He seemed happy with the wedding, as did the rest of his family, and I think maybe mine too. They weren't in the dream though. After meeting him, I went walking around the little town with his mom. Talking to her, I was telling her that I had doubts about the wedding, and that this just wasn't someone I couldn't live without. At this point, my sister was with me too and she was agreeing with what I had to say. I went on this rant about how this is not how I want my lifetime of marriage to start. I need to marry someone who makes me a better person, who I can't live without, and who is someone I am truly, deeply in love with. I went on saying, "This is NOT my wedding! I want my wedding at Highland Park with either Dan or Cheryl as the minister, with flowers, and sky blue drapes (I don't know where that came in, but it did). I know what my wedding will be like, and this is not it."
I know why I had this dream. It's because I watched 'Four Weddings and a Funeral' right before bed, and the main character kind of goes through the same thing at the end. They are about to marry someone who isn't right for them, and they change their mind.
In the end of the dream, I explain to the mom that even though I would feel bad about all the money lost in the wedding, and all the guests being there, I couldn't go through with the wedding. Then I woke up and thought, "WHAT IS WITH ALL THESE WEIRD DREAMS I HAVE BEEN HAVING?!?!" That's when I went to Dream Dictionary...
Not quite sure what this means, but...
To dream that you are planning a wedding to someone you never met, is a metaphor symbolizing the union of your masculine and feminine side. It represents a transitional phase where you are seeking some sort of balance between your aggressive side and emotional side. The dream may also indicate that two previously conflicting aspects are merging together as one.
To dream that you are in an arranged marriage, suggests that you are feeling forced to do something you do not want to do. You feel that you have no voice or no choice in a situation. Consider how a waking situation may be making you feel voiceless.
I think the second one might have something to do with UTA...
Now I remember I also had a dream about being pregnant too!!! All I remember is this one scene where I as at Maw's house in Plano in the pink bedroom all alone, just looking out the window at the fields. I remember watching the grass and hay in the fields and just talking to the baby in my stomach. It was REALLY weird. Like, I looked pregnant! I think I had this dream because I have been helping my friend get ready for her baby, and we went to register at the baby store the other day. I did dream about what I would get someday if I ever had a baby. And in my dream, the baby was a girl. Yeah, pretty messed up stuff in my subconscious lately!
Sounds like this probably has to do with UTA too...
To dream that you are pregnant, symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it. Being pregnant in your dream may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction, project or goal.
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